September 12, 2025
September 11, 2025
500 000!
What followed was the realization that my existence was being shadow banned from the web actively by gewgel, and to a lesser degree other search engines. In fact it still is to a large degree. Behind the scenes I have seen in my blog stats how gewgek would regularly scrape off view stats to suppress this sissy, but I was undeterred. Little by little I would find wins.
This week I hit 500k views, and while it may seem low after 2 years and especially since my old bloh would see about 800k per year, I feel like I've been winning again. My numbers are increasing and the damn has broke a litte with the gewgel getapo. More of my blog is discoverable online.
So to those who have refound, newly found and have been kind enough to link my blog onto their own, thank you!
September 10, 2025
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September 9, 2025
September 8, 2025
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September 7, 2025
Proving a Point - Thanks to Mistress Nikki Whiplash
Originally Posted April 6, 2019
Recently, I was lamenting the strife's that Lady Diva was enduring at the hands of those who are very much clueless as to how to properly approach, address, and interact with a Domme. Sadly these frustrations are endured by every Domme alive, most likely, as subbies who allow themselves to think with the little head that only gets blood flow occasionally, rarely take the time to learn the proper manners and skills in how to respectfully and politely reach out to a Domme.
In my own experiences, I've tried to share here what has worked for me to not only foster a very treasured Domme/sissy relationship, but genuine interpersonal friendships with Dominant Women, I once could only admire from afar. Each of these friendships has strengthened my bonds to who I am and choose to be as a sissy submissive. This week, an example of what I've tried to convey took place, and I wish to share it with you.
The captivating, and beautiful Domme in the photo above is the world renown Nikki Whiplash. From the moment I discovered who She was, I couldn't help but be fascinated by Her energy, Her personality, and Her tremendously captivating nature of self. She was one of the first people I followed on my twitter account and I've always felt very fortunate on the rare occasion when She has gifted me with a like or an emoji to a tweet of mine. Ms Whiplash surely would be one of the most bombarded Dommes via email and social media, and I've always felt very blessed whenever She would take a small moment to acknowledge me in any way at all. Being that I live an ocean away, I've never thought it proper to email Her or to pester Her in any way that would waster Her time, so I've always been content and happy to continue to admire Her from afar, with a pining to one day share even a nice cup of tea with someone I find so fascinating.
This week, something very lovely happened when Ms Whiplash put out a tweet that I couldn't help but respond to in a bit of a cheeky manner. That my reply made Her smile and coaxed a bit of a chuckle was all I needed to put a smile on my face that day. If any of us puts a smile on another's face through a tiny effort of our own, then it's a good thing. So I decided to reply with some sincere gratitude that She took a moment of Her valuable time to share with me.
And with that, a few moments later I was off on my day, still smiling quietly to myself at my good fortune, bestowed by Ms Whiplash. As often has been the case in my sissy life, a little while later, a gift of Femdomination came calling and I experienced one of the biggest sissy leaks I've had since my lengthy sissy chastity experience. I was thrilled as I leaked fully limp what would have once in a previous life would have been a rather sizable cumshot. But now in my sissy life my leaks happen more as a result of emotional and mental stimulation as opposed to physical, and I smile broadly with pride each time a sissy leak happens.
And with that I was blessed to have had a tiny chat with someone I've admired for such a long while. It truly made my day! I thanked Ms Whiplash very much and said a few sincere words of admiration that indeed came from the heart, and with that W/we were both off spinning in our own orbits for the remainder of the week. It's important to point out that I did not continue to pester Her for more time and attention. I was enormously GRATEFUL for Her gift of time and attention She chose to give.
As subbies, one of the first profound lessons one can learn is to be fulfilled by what manner of interaction and /or reward a Domme may choose to bestow upon us. Be grateful, stay humble and be open to receive the gifts of Femdomination where and whenever they occur. Ms Whiplash enriched my sissy life by one small act of kindness, and inspired me to share this with others so that they may hopefully find their own gifts of Femdomination in their lives.
Be kind, be polite, be patient, and be humble, and you will experience things you may never have dreamed of.
Thank You Ms Whiplash!
Sincerely Sissy
Devina Cox
September 6, 2025
Sissy Archives: Locked 700 Days and Counting
Originally Posted May 28, 2019
Today marks a proud milestone for me. 700 days in sissy chastity. 700 days with no stimulation of my sissy clit. 700 days with no release except my natural sissy leaks. 700 days to honour all the Dominant Women in my life that I hold near and dear. 1 Year, 11 Months.
I could never have believed it possible, but through Femdomination, everything is possible.
I now embark on my Chastiversary month looking ahead to the 2 year mark next month. Each milestone still blows my sissy brain to bits.
The best part of my sissy chastity journey is that even when not in a device for periods of time, I no longer even WANT to play with my sissy clit. Seriously. The thought of how doing something so foolish after transforming my mind and body this long, never mind the disappointment that would fall upon Lady Diva and Maitresse Cathie should I slip would be something I simply could not bear.
The only real gift I can offer Lady Diva and Maitresse Cathie in return for all they have bestowed upon me is my continued dedication and the physiological changes that are occurring, rendering my sissy clit slowly and most certainly more and more flaccid and useless. In the last 6-8 months I can count on one hand the number of times I've managed to experienced a turgid sissy clit enough to cause discomfort in my CB6000s or Holy Trainer.
The longer one gives themselves to something greater than themselves, the less consequential the thing they sacrificed is, and the more meaningful the road ahead becomes. I look forward to the milestone Lady Diva has discussed with me and I want nothing more than to deliver that to both Her and Maitresse Cathie. Before I reach that, my second chastiversary will occur. One year each in honour of the two Women who have encouraged, reinforced, and give me strength and confidence to be the best sissy I can possibly be in any way that I can. I get misty eyed at their joy and pride as day after day, week after week, month after month, and soon year after year has receded in the rear view mirror, putting my old world behind me as I connect with the real sissy me, more and more each day.
Tomorrow begins a new journey to my 2nd sissy chastiversary. Today I beam with pride at how far I have come by not cumming at all!
Author's Note:
Since this post I have happily exceeded 4 times that amount and am days away from another massive milestone. Looking back at my sissy chastity journey like this makes my heart swell with pride that my sissy life has brought me so far.
Love Devina
September 5, 2025
Working For The Weekend & Your Mistress
You've made it to the weekend. Here's some motivation to make your weekend count, and pad your Domme's purse!
September 4, 2025
September 3, 2025
#Chastember is Here. You Know What to Do!
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As the song says, "It's the Most Wonderful Time...of the Year" The Chastity Season is upon us!
There was a time in my sissy life when I couldn't ever see myself being a proponent of chastity. At that time I couldn't understand how it could ever fit into who Devina was at that time. The problem was that I had not begun to evolve psychologically as a sissy, where I had yet to understand and embrace what physiological changes were to come that would allow me to get to a place where not only was sissy chastity possible, but an essential step in becoming the sissy I needed to be.
Like many early barriers in my sissy journey, I started to learn that sissy chastity was another barrier that stood in my way, and once the curiosity got the best of me, I purchased my first CB6000S (smallest of course) and began experimenting. What stood out immediately was how my sissy clit looked when locked. And it was then I began to realize that the art form of being a sissy in chastity was moreso what being locked represented than what it denied. Being locked was a further relinquishing of what remaining fragments of influence my emasculated male ego (EME) was clinging onto. I needed to change that.
My first endurance of chastity began with what was then, seemingly excruciatingly long goals: 3 days. As I write this now, being in sissy chastity for 1 year, 2 months, and 4 days, I can't help but laugh at the absurdity of that first goal, yet it was crucial. For a sissy to develop and flourish, her journey is a series of small steps over time until one becomes so far away from where they first started, that they truly are now a new person.
So 3 days was achieved. Then a few weeks later I managed to get to 11. Then later 15 days, each time with the encouragement of Lady Diva and Her positive reinforcement providing me the essential energy I needed to reward Her with my efforts. Then I managed to hit 37 days and was quite proud of myself.
The decision to attempt something longer came with another sissy evolution within me. The commitment to myself that I only wanted to experience what sexual gratification was like in as Womanly manner as possible meant that I had to devote myself to only experiencing sex as a 100% bottom sissy. That meant no more direct sissy clit attention. Sex had to mean that my satisfaction has to be from now on from being penetrated, and to develop the mental and emotional connection to a sissygasm via my p-spot. To do this, sissy chastity was now crucial.
Chastember is here. Time for your own sissy journey to begin. Locktober is next, with Nocumber and Denycember following. This is your chance to embark upon your own sissy journey, that might open new doors in your evolution. You too can suddenly find yourself locked in devotion and loving it!
Devina
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