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Confessing To The Woman in Your Life

 

 One of the questions asked most often is how does one get the Woman in their life to make them a sissy or a slave? The first question is what do you want or need? Here more than anywhere else, be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. 

One of the things you have to consider is that once you cross this line, She will NEVER look at you as a man again. Is your relationship strong enough to survive that change? Your relationship will change forever once you bring this up. 

Some questions you have to consider are the following: Is your Woman naturally submissive? If so, all is not lost. However, it will take much more work on your part to get Her comfortable with this type of relationship. Do you want to play or really change the basic nature of your relationship?  Every sissy relationship should start out as play.  It will only work if BOTH are comfortable with it. By just playing, you can see if  She will really be ok with it. IF NOT, YOU WOULD SERVE HER BEST BY SUPPRESSING YOUR DESIRE FOR SISSYHOOD.

 

 Are you willing to pay the price to be a sissy? If you want to become a sissy, you will have to serve your Woman. This means doing housework, laundry, cooking, cleaning etc. you may not have to do all the work, but you will have to do much more than most men are willing to do. IF YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO DO THIS, FORGET IT.

REMEMBER, A SISSY SATISFIES HER MISTRESS FIRST. A sissy is only satisfied if and when her Mistress wants.

 Now for the how to part. – The introduction.  Start by telling Her how much you love Her, respect Her, and how you have a need to completely surrender yourself to Her. Cook a nice dinner for Her (If your are going to be a sissy, you are going to have to learn to cook. If you can’t, (buy a cook book.), get a nice bottle of wine, and afterwards, sit Her down and tell Her how sexy she is. Then tell Her that you want to do everything you can to make Her happy and satisfied. Tell Her every time you are with Her, you just want to surrender to Her and melt into Her arms. 

Explain that you want to serve Her better but must have Her help to learn how to. Serving Her better is going to make you and your life happier and more fulfilling. Tell Her that receiving Her correction and suggestions will help you serve Her better. Let Her know that you want your lives together to fit her idea of the perfect relationship. This is particularly important if your Woman is not naturally dominant. She may feel that you want Her to become something She is not comfortable with.

 

Be specific about how you want to serve Her. Tell Her exactly what you want to do for Her. Let Her know that out of your love for Her and your need to serve Her, you will do this and that for Her. Be sure that you fulfill these promises! Ask Her specifically what you can do to make Her happier and Her life easier Ask Her what She would change about you. This is critical. Whatever She says, agree if you are willing to do it.

Agreeing to change and not changing will eliminate any chance of Her being willing to become your Mistress. Let Her change you to be what She wants so that you can change the relationship to what you want. Again, the most important part of being a true sissy or slave is submitting your will to Hers.

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Why More and More males are Wanting to Become Women

 

Surprisingly many males have intense desires to dress and act like Women. This does not automatically mean that they are homosexual  (although some are). For example, some of them have Wives or Girlfriends, whereas others are waiting to go through a sex-change operation before having penetrative sex.

However, many males with these feelings can feel embarrassed, shy or plain scared to let people know. A male may be afraid of the reactions he may get from his Wife or Girlfriend, friends, or work-mates. He may find confessing this to a religious figure would bring scorn or condemnation. Yet, he would not  be doing anything wrong. He is not harming anyone. This man merely has different feelings and desires. Just as it would be unhelpful to condemn or criticize someone who prefers, say, tennis to football, so it is  equally unhelpful to judge a person's feelings for what is known as  "Feminization".

 

Feminization is the process  of changing a male's behaviour, feelings and even thought patterns into  that of a Woman. Although the process is never fully complete, a male can, with practice and support, change into an apparently real and convincing Woman. To make this conversion fully, a male needs to  overcome some real obstacles. This includes his upbringing, any subconscious blocks, and maybe a lifetime's habit of doing things in a  man's way. Not everyone realizes that the subconscious exerts a  powerful control over how a person behaves and feels. By aligning one's subconscious (and unconscious) beliefs, one can generate new behaviours and feelings that feel automatic and natural.

Feminization is no different. In achieving this, a male would no longer have to "fake" being a Woman, but could move confidently through the world in a Feminine way. Adding the right clothes would turn him into a convincing Woman. Naturally, practice is one way to make new ways of life automatic, natural and unconscious. This means that if we do something often enough, it becomes  as automatic as, say, blinking. 

How can a man speed up this Feminization process? Well, hypnosis is specially designed to work  directly with a person's unconscious mind. By utilizing hypnosis, any process -- including Feminization -- will be greatly speeded up. We  would call this Feminization hypnosis. In summary, when a male has  feelings of wanting to be a Woman, this is common and should be  accepted. The male can fully engage these feelings and speed them up  through a process of "Feminization hypnosis", quickly and naturally becoming the Woman he wants to be.

 

How Can a Woman Feminize Her Man? Is  it too much to ask for the males in our lives to take dance lessons with us? Can we ever go to a "chick flick" without hearing sighs of boredom?  All of these struggles leave us wondering if males are capable of tapping  into their sensitive sides. How can we Feminize a male without the frustration?

Keep the list short. Start with one sensitive thing at a time, and try to keep it easy. He won't be happy about sitting through a two hour drama, so find something that will be enjoyable for him too.  His eyes will not roll to the back of his head if it has some action.

Make  it fifty-fifty. If you don't like action movies or movies with a mentality of a twelve year old, then don't expect him to be so  cooperative of tear-jerkers. There has to be some meeting of the middle or no one feels they are getting their needs met. Women and males don't  need to have the same interests. Pick out one or two things to do together and the rest you can do with friends. If you wish for it, you might just get it. Make sure you are not trying to make him too Feminine or sensitive. You have only yourself to blame if he starts crying at every beer commercial.

Most men just don't have it. As hard as you try, males are not capable of being completely sensitive. They have testosterone more then estrogen, so it may be physically impossible. However, every male has some sensitivity to them, but they express it by being protectors and providers. Finally, most males are  raised differently and cannot be changed. Generally, women are raised with a more sensitive and Feminine mentality. Women cannot be changed anymore then males can. We may be asking too much of men to expect them to be sensitive and feminine on the level that Women were raised to be.

 

A  male is considered masculine, protective, and destructive (when needed).  Feminizing a male means relieving the tensions felt from his presence. Many Women feel that it's important to have a male with traits of Femininity so he will understand their needs. Women have stated and continue to complain that males do not share themselves enough in a relationship. You can read thousands of books of how Women are concerned about the sensitivity their boyfriends or husbands lack in loving them.

It's not interesting to see someone change because their intimate other decides it. You can learn how to Feminize a man by showing him that sensitivity is important to you. Soon, you will notice how well he listens and responds during conversations. You may also receive honest answers pertaining to your appearance, but keep it to a minimum. Many Women make the mistake of leading their males in the wrong direction with Femininity. Remember to reward your  husband or boyfriend for listening to you. It takes a lot for some males to break down those barriers to express emotions to the Women they love.  It's evident that their needs must remain a part of the equation, but  you won't have to worry about losing their concerns.

By understanding, working hard, and believing in his well-being, his Feminine side will arise. You can be honest when you ask that he Feminize himself to become better. Or you can teach him how to open up  slowly. When you learn how to Feminize a male, you learn how to enter  his heart with open arms.

 

How to feminize?

Ever  wonder how to feminize your hubby? Tired of beer, sports and scary movies? Does your hubby think romance is grabbing fast food? Well stay tuned I have tips for you! First and foremost you should realize that your hubby will more then likely not like the idea. This is not to say that it cannot be done, it just comes down to how much your husband cares about your needs and wants to satisfy you.

First of all you need to know what you want to change about your hubby and create a plan.  Do you want to have more romance? Spend more time together? Maybe you want him to be more sensitive? Deciding exactly what it is you want and focusing in on that will help you to devise a plan.

Identifying what motivates your hubby and using it against him will be very important.  Know what his triggers are, and use them. Don't let him know that you are withholding 'special treatment', just play coy and act like you done know what he wants until he gives in.

You could start slowly with some subliminal tactics. Playing songs like 'Dude Looks Like a Lady' and  begin to only call him names like love, sweetie, honey, cutie, etc.  These things bring out his sensitive side and bring you closer to your goal. Control your conversations by answering his questions with more questions. If his question is 'Why are we going to this movie?' Your  response should be 'Because you love me so much!' Keeping him on his toes like this will sure stop him in his tracks. Be sure to praise him for all of his attempts at being sensitive. It will take some time to transform your male. Remember that every step gets you closer to your  goal!

You want to know how to Feminize your house husband? You are no longer thrilled by the unnecessary banter of boys being boys and thoughts of superiority. Perhaps you just want to sit down with your male and talk about that new movie just just came out. But you are unsure how to do it. After  all, there's not really a book on "How do I make my male drop the beer and pick up the chick flick"? 

There is a variety of things you could do to get your male in touch with his inner Woman! You could do something  delicate together. Don't go get him a manicure, but maybe you take an art class together (sure, he'll likely be more excited if it's a nude portrait class but you don't have to take that one!). Do something soothing and enjoyable for the both of you. Let him show his artistic side. Talk to him about it. I don't enjoy the idea of going behind someone's back to do anything. It is dishonest. If you want him to stop acting like a man so much, let him know! He will probably stare at you funny but I guarantee that if he loves you he'll make a few changes on  his own with time.

Don't treat him like a Lady, yet. He will probably see this as more of an insult rather than anything. Don't steal his entire playboy collection and replace it with a Feminine magazines, yet. Though that  would be hilarious, it is not wise to do anything upsetting or Feminizing your man will backfire and he won't be very happy. In a nutshell, that's how to feminize your house husband. There are many  strategies to go about but just keep in mind to be honest to him, and to you.