Confessing To The Woman in Your Life

 

 One of the questions asked most often is how does one get the Woman in their life to make them a sissy or a slave? The first question is what do you want or need? Here more than anywhere else, be careful what you wish for, you just might get it. 

One of the things you have to consider is that once you cross this line, She will NEVER look at you as a man again. Is your relationship strong enough to survive that change? Your relationship will change forever once you bring this up. 

Some questions you have to consider are the following: Is your Woman naturally submissive? If so, all is not lost. However, it will take much more work on your part to get Her comfortable with this type of relationship. Do you want to play or really change the basic nature of your relationship?  Every sissy relationship should start out as play.  It will only work if BOTH are comfortable with it. By just playing, you can see if  She will really be ok with it. IF NOT, YOU WOULD SERVE HER BEST BY SUPPRESSING YOUR DESIRE FOR SISSYHOOD.

 

 Are you willing to pay the price to be a sissy? If you want to become a sissy, you will have to serve your Woman. This means doing housework, laundry, cooking, cleaning etc. you may not have to do all the work, but you will have to do much more than most men are willing to do. IF YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO DO THIS, FORGET IT.

REMEMBER, A SISSY SATISFIES HER MISTRESS FIRST. A sissy is only satisfied if and when her Mistress wants.

 Now for the how to part. – The introduction.  Start by telling Her how much you love Her, respect Her, and how you have a need to completely surrender yourself to Her. Cook a nice dinner for Her (If your are going to be a sissy, you are going to have to learn to cook. If you can’t, (buy a cook book.), get a nice bottle of wine, and afterwards, sit Her down and tell Her how sexy she is. Then tell Her that you want to do everything you can to make Her happy and satisfied. Tell Her every time you are with Her, you just want to surrender to Her and melt into Her arms. 

Explain that you want to serve Her better but must have Her help to learn how to. Serving Her better is going to make you and your life happier and more fulfilling. Tell Her that receiving Her correction and suggestions will help you serve Her better. Let Her know that you want your lives together to fit her idea of the perfect relationship. This is particularly important if your Woman is not naturally dominant. She may feel that you want Her to become something She is not comfortable with.

 

Be specific about how you want to serve Her. Tell Her exactly what you want to do for Her. Let Her know that out of your love for Her and your need to serve Her, you will do this and that for Her. Be sure that you fulfill these promises! Ask Her specifically what you can do to make Her happier and Her life easier Ask Her what She would change about you. This is critical. Whatever She says, agree if you are willing to do it.

Agreeing to change and not changing will eliminate any chance of Her being willing to become your Mistress. Let Her change you to be what She wants so that you can change the relationship to what you want. Again, the most important part of being a true sissy or slave is submitting your will to Hers.