February 25, 2024

Wanna-Be Sissies

 

Recently I was having one of my regular Girl/gurl chats with my Mistress, Lady Diva Cane. I love the S/sister chats we have regularly and like most Girls/gurls we talk about everything and anything.

 Something that was upsetting Mistress Diva was another sissy of Hers, who still held onto the fantasy that as a sissy, one day her slutty trashy behaviour would lead to the reward of some sort of sexual favors from Mistress Diva. Mistress then told me how She had to regularly "re-train" this sissy's mindset to dismiss such thoughts, yet they would return after a while.

I was so disappointed. I knew right away that this particular sissy's EME (emasculated male ego) was still running amok with this particular sissy, thinking and behaving as if it still was in control.

Gurls, we all need to understand something. If we are blessed to have the gift of a Dominant Woman in control of our lives, we should be extremely grateful, and never, EVER, abuse of jeopardize that by allowing something as worthless as your EME to try and mess that up for you! Our Mistresses reward us daily by allowing us to live out portions of our lives in ways we once only dreamed about in the dark recesses of our minds. They make our deepest desires to express our Femininity real and accepted. They allow us to flourish and become the gurls we've always wanted to be.

Serve them, allow them to shape, mould, and train you into the gurls you could never be on our own. Strive each day to better yourself as a sissy gurl, be it as a maid, or slut, and your Mistress will see to it that you get the rewards you deserve. She may decide that your reward is to be the bitch at the end of Her strapon, or to pimp you out to Her Girlfriends, or to have you suck real cock in front of Her, or maybe even be used as Her seat cushion, but no matter the reward She chooses for you, accept it graciously, and never try and take advantage of Her and manipulate Her into something your useless EME desires. This makes you a wanna be sissy and gives us all a bad name....

Devina's Domme of the Day Feb 25


 

Devina's TGirl of the Day Feb 25


 

February 23, 2024

A Cock by Any Other Name..

 


 I'm not one who likes to be preachy when it comes to any other gurl's path through sissyhood. I do like to think that my experiences can make other's more brave, and bolder to take those nervous steps in their own high heels to better discover and embrace their inner Feminine spirit.

One thing I feel truly blessed with is the patience and wisdom shared with me by my Mistress and other Dommes. Their knowledge has helped me in ways unimaginable and in turn, I've been able to formulate some theories of my own when it comes to us gurls making Women happy and satisfied with us.

Now anyone who's poked around here for any length of time would find it pretty self evident that I, Devina, love cock! Where I may differ from a larger number of you gurls is that to me, there are only two kinds of cock that matter, period. The first is the cock that my Mistress, or any Domme' employs as a part of Her complete dominance over me as a sissy sub. One should love and worship their Mistresses' cock. They should crave it, strive to be taken and rewarded by it, and experience the rewards of being at the end of your Mistresses' cock. It is a true reward for any sissy, and one which should be honoured accordingly. It should also serve as a constant reminder at all times who is in charge of your world, and serve as further reminder that the sissy clit between your legs is completely inconsequential. It is there merely for your Mistresses' amusement or torment. She owns it, and owns you. 

The second cock that truly matters, belongs to those who have evolved far beyond us sissy gurls. They have taken bolder and more brave steps towards the goal of truly attaining Feminine nirvana. Yes, I'm referring to the Shecock of Transgender Women. (I share no prejudice to any label so if any offends you, that's your issue). The Shemale cock is one of nature's true treasures. It finds itself attached to the Feminine body, mind and spirit, and is able to give us cock hungry sissy bitches all we can handle, and then some. It is the rare desert rose that blooms giving us gifts beyond compare. If you are a sissy gurl reading these words and have not experienced the pleasure of having Shemale cock on your lips or accepted into your asspussy, make plans immediately, for you truly have no idea of the gifts they share!

 


Now I know some, perhaps many, use their transformation and journey to subject themselves to the "other" cock. That is fine, I mean who am I to judge? Each of us uses our journey for our own reasons and own desires. For me, as I have stated here before, the "other" cock serves no purpose in my life. Zero. Never has, never will. Now I know some of you may scoff and doubt me, but I seek no approval from anyone. I just state it as fact. Now, lets get back to #2 shall we?

I, like many of you, as part of my early training as a sub, began to learn the skills of sucking cock, as commanded by my Mistress. For some, the mere idea is degrading, revolting, shameful, and what not. For others it's a kinky thrill, and for others yet it acts as a gateway to bigger and better! Service of your Mistresses' cock du jeur is an important step in solidifying your complete submission to Her, and one should never take their training lightly. In time She will make you worship and service Her cock in many mind expanding ways, so you better get used to your new instrument of Dominance. You will be looking up to it for the rest of your life, whether you realize it yet or not.

 


When your Mistress wears Her cock, it is a part of Her, a true extension of who She is and Her place high above you, and you worship it just as you would any other part of Her that She bestows upon you, just as the sole of Her boot, the backside of Her leather glove, or the tip of Her crop. If it is attached, it is a part of Her.


 

When your Mistress is using a dildo or vibrator or plug as a tool, not attached to Her body, it is merely an instrument. A thing designed to bend your body, mind and spirit to accept Her. And at the end of the day that item is merely an inanimate object, only put to use by Her skilled hands. Worshipping those things is merely amusement for your Domme.

Now sissy, do you really want to get your Mistresses' attention? Of course you do! If you truly want to make Her happy and proud of what She has accomplished by eradicating the pathetic maleness from you in order to shape you into something better, then strive to go the extra mile for Her. Learn to suck real cock for Her! 

 


Show Her how much She means to you by giving Her great pleasure in seeing a real cock cross your lips for the first time. Let Her smile as you discover your inner wanton lust for cock and eagerly slurp it over and over. I won't comment on what type of cock you should enjoy, as my preferences are crystal clear, but do it for Her! Give Her the gift of seeing Her sissy cocksucking slut go to town on a nice hard cock. Rub it all over your lips and face, lick those balls, take it deep into your throat and gag on it a coupe of times, and go back for more! To show how much you truly love your Mistress, take a nice creamy facial just for Her.

You will be so glad you did. And the gifts your Mistress will bring to your life as a result are simply divine...

Devina's Domme of the Day Feb 23


 

Devina's TGirl of the Day Feb 23


 

February 22, 2024

Confessing to a Woman that You Crossdress

 

Many Women fear if you crossdress you must like men. Why they have  come to think this is confusing. Our society is becoming more and more educated sexually and open minded sexually so that's helping many sissies who crossdress become accepted by more and more Women. Crossdressing does not always relate to your sexual preference and for some Women its hard for them not to jump  to conclusions about your sexual preference when they find out you crossdress. 

Most sissies who crossdress spend years trying to figure out how to tell there partner, many who have told their partner are surprised that the Woman actually accepts it and may like it. Its a great way to spice  things up in the bedroom and many Women I have talked to say that a male that likes to crossdress makes for a much better lover. Many couples are into crossdressing, and most express how  turned on and playful it makes both of them. Women have expressed  that a gurl who likes to crossdress is more in tune to Her needs and is unselfish, plus the fact that crossdressing excites him so much and he  pays so much more attention to Her.

 


Some Women will be totally ok with it  right from the start others will need time to understand it. The best approach is to ease into it, it may take several months but it will be worth it and its a weight off your shoulders. Being able to wear your sissy things openly with your significant other is so much more enjoyable. Also another thing is honesty. If you tell Her its a lot different than being caught by Her. 

Most Women appreciate a male being open and honest with them instead of hiding it for years and later finding out. Telling a Woman you like to crossdress can be very nerve racking for sure but be prepared for a discussion and don't just say you like to crossdress and then walk out of the room and think everything will be ok. Talk to Her and ease any worries She has about you crossdressing. Be prepared for questions and also be prepared to answer them. There are many Women who do enjoy a gurl who likes to crossdress. They are increasing in numbers and not always easily found, bu they are out there. One just might be waiting for you!