Devina's Domme of the Day May 7

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day May 7

 

Bois Will Be Gurls Vol 58

 

Devina's Domme of the Day May 6

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day May 6

 

Devina's Domme of the Day May 5

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day May 5

 

Devina's Domme of the Day May 4

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day May 4

 

More Women Like You Wearing Panties Than You Realize

 

While we know sadly it's not the norm, there are a small but growing number of Women who enjoy seeing sissies wearing panties. Male underwear is boring and does not come in very many styles, fabrics or colours. One has to feel sorry for them because they have such few choices in underwear, however for those sissies who have chosen to wear Women's panties should be commended!

Male underwear is not very flattering to a sissy body, as they just sort of hang there, however Women's underwear is meant to be flattering and whether a Woman is wearing them or a sissy is wearing them, Women's underwear is meant to fit snug, hug every curve, feel good against your skin and be a joy to wear and to see. We know exactly why sissies enjoy wearing panties. Panties feel so good against your body and sissies look so hot wearing panties, a nice shapely butt in tight panties and lets not forget about that little locked up thing in the front pressing against the fabric of a pair of panties.

While the number of Women who appreciates a sissy in panties isn't what we all would love there to be,  don’t worry gurls, there are more Women out there who appreciate a sissy wearing panties and understand why you wear panties. Once they have turned one male into a sissy panty wearer, they will do it again and again with every male they are with. I know those sissies are still wearing panties, because once you slip a pair on you will wear them forever. I have met many other Women who enjoy sissies wearing panties and many couples who enjoy wearing panties together.  Its always nice to see other couples wearing panties and enjoying the  pleasure panties bring to both Women and sissies.

You would be surprised at just how many Women are curious when another starts talking to them about a male wearing panties, maybe its because its coming from another Female and they hear one expressing how enjoyable it is. Most other Women first are curious and not turned off by it (regardless of what their outward reaction is), they ask lots of questions and you can tell they are a  bit overly excited about it. The main reason why males think its hard to find a Woman who into them wearing panties or find it hard to tell a Wife or Girlfriend that they enjoy wearing panties is because Women tend to keep things they are turned on by to themselves, they are more timid and  shy about such things and its hard to get them to talk about it. For  males they are very open to what they enjoy about their partner or what they enjoy having a Woman do to them. With a Woman its sort  of a mystery as to what turns Her on or what they enjoy having males do for them.

However many Women are much more kinkier and have wilder sexual thoughts, turn ons, fantasies than most males, but most Women just don’t show that side of them. So when it comes to Women who like sissies wearing panties sorry gurls but you just cannot tell which Women are into males wearing panties and which are not, I  wish we could give you some sort of sign so that you will know we are into you wearing panties. However we are out there, it might take patience and time to find us but we are out there. I am sure for any sissy its a dream come true to be able to wear panties in front of a Woman. I know it comes down to the fear of rejection, so many sissies never get to enjoy what its like to wear panties without fear and enjoy the  pleasure of wearing them in front of a Woman.

 

There is hope for all sissies who wear panties to wear panties in front of a Woman, whether you are single or have a Wife or Girlfriend. Telling your Wife or Girlfriend I am sure is a very fearful and nervous thing  but its all about how you bring it up. Not all Women are going to be ok with a sissy wearing panties, however as said you will be surprised at just how many are curious about it and would be totally fine with a sissy wearing panties. Its all about how you bring it up so that they understand why you enjoy wearing them, don’t leave them wondering why you wear them. Women are known for overreacting and over thinking things, don’t give your Wife or Girlfriend the chance to overreact or over think, let Her know why you enjoy them, let Her know its not something that changes who you are or that is going to effect your relationship.You never know the Woman you have spent years and years with hiding your love of wearing panties from might have just been totally ok with it all this time. Sometimes a Girl cannot get enough of seeing you sissies in all those different panties.

Devina's Domme of the Day May 3

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day May 3

 

Devina's Domme of the Day May 2

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day May 2

 

Devina's Domme of the Day May 1

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day May 1

 

2500 Days in Sissy Chastity!

 2500 days ago, I began my life changing sissy chastity journey and it has made me a better person, a better more devoted submissive sissy, and has brought me emotions and experiences I could have never felt in any other matter. Hands free sissygasms, sissy leaks, wet dreams, and the total transformation of my sexuality to full bottom. None of this would have been possible without the following Women who have forever changed my life for the better:

Lady Morganna

Lady Diva Cane

Maitresse Cathie La Divine

Mistress Suzanna Stern

Mistress Patricia

Goddess Brianna

Mistress Kendra James

Lady Bernadett

and every other Domme who has influenced me in ways large and small.  Your Femdomination has brought me to places once thought unimaginable!

Devina's Domme of the Day Apr 30

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day Apr 30

 

Bois Will Be Gurls Vol 57

 

Devina's Domme of the Day Apr 29

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day Apr 29

 

Devina's Domme of the Day Apr 28

 

Devina's TGirl of the Day Apr 28

 

Can You Attract a Woman as a Sissy?

 

 Being interested or active as a crossdresser does not mean a male is gay. It is possible, but it should not be assumed. So, if you are a  straight male who likes to dress up in Women’s fashion… how do you find a  straight Woman to have a relationship with? Of course, if you don’t want a relationship, there isn’t any point to talking about personal things like your fetish/obsession/interest in Women’s clothes,  cosmetics and so on. Unless you just want to get a reaction, kind of  show-offy of you.

Also, if you aren’t straight, then why are you trying to attract Women? Lastly, crossdressing is mainly on the surface, once you pass that and get into transgender males there are different issues. Do not ignore or be dishonest about crossdressing and/or transgender issues. If you have made that decision then stand by it and don’t expect a Woman should like you in spite of it. If you hide something important to who you are, then how can you expect Her understanding, tolerance or affection when you have made this part of you seem like something you had to hide.

Are Women attracted to crossdressers?

 If there really is someone for everyone, as they say, then there is a chance crossdressers will find Women who like, or tolerate at least, their interest. It may not go as far as sharing actual items of clothing, shaving gear and beauty supplies, but there could be a lot of fun going shopping together for fashion, cosmetics and lingerie.

There will be Women who are intolerant. Whatever their reasons, just leave them alone. Crossdressing does make a lot of people uncomfortable and that is how it is. Don’t take it personally. Be careful about which of your family, friends, associates and co-workers you share your personal information with. Don’t think to use it as a means of shocking people or daring them to accept you as you are. That’s a bit childish. Also, if you want to find tolerance than you should be giving tolerance as well. Tolerate those who do not accept crossdressing.

Meanwhile, look for those who have an interest in crossdressing. Once you find a few people who share your interest you will find more places to find more people and groups and so on. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t meet someone right away. Make yourself available and be honest with the people you meet. Don’t try to become the person they want, if  that isn’t the person you are.

Women are attracted to males who can make them happy, males who listen to them and Women still like some romance. If you happen to be a  crossdresser on top of that, it won’t seem so very important compared to everything else.

Being attractive to Women as a crossdresser.

Women who do like crossdressers tend to prefer those who are still male, with all the standard parts and no female body parts (like boobs).  I can understand this. Consider how you would feel, as a male who wants to date a Woman, if the Woman you liked was wearing a fake penis. Not so atrractive now? There is a reason straight Women are straight, we like the male body with the hands bigger than our own, some chest hair possibly, a voice a bit deeper and other features which are kind of  standard to the masculine.

Women might like a male who takes extra care with his appearance. I doubt too many Women would find fault with a male who uses beauty products to polish his appearance. However, the further along you take that the less likely you will find Women who will consider you as masculine.

I think the real problem for straight men who crossdress is women who see them and write them off as being gay.  I guess you could wear an “I’m not gay” pin, but that seems just a bit extreme. So, a straight guy needs to find other ways to make sure his sexuality is not ambiguous. It’s in your attitude.

Don’t go overboard in your appearance. If you exaggerate to the point of no longer looking like a male at all, how will Women know you are a  male, let alone a straight male? Also, how will see feel about people (family and friends) who see you together? Yes, it does matter whether you like it or think it shouldn’t. Does it matter to you that people think you are with an attractive Woman?

Watch your body language. Do you come across as masculine in the way you walk, the way you stand and the way you speak? Is that what you want, the way you want people to see you? If you want to give off the appearance of being gay you should reconsider attracting straight Women.  A straight Woman is likely to be looking for a straight male, crossdressing aside.

 

Use your knowledge and experience in being someone who steps between the lines to understand Women and appreciate the time and care they put into their appearance. Treat Her like someone special, hold open the door, take her arm in that old-fashioned way or hold Her hand in public.  Little things mean a lot and those romantic gestures can make her feel Feminine and important to you. Besides, if you are holding Her hand –  then She is also holding your hand.

Are you metrosexual or a full out crossdresser? Is it the Female look which you like or do you just want to do more with your appearance than the common, traditional male standards? Maybe the issue isn’t  crossdressing but self-acceptance. Something to consider.

- Laura Brown

Devina's Domme of the Day Apr 27