Part of my own personal growth as a sissy for the New Year is to find ways to reach out more to Women who are not a part of any Alt-lifestyles to give them glimpses of sissy life. One of the things I feel more and more Women need to be exposed to is the fallacy that those who choose to live parts or all of their lives in their Feminine ego's and wardrobes, are all closet gays, and this simply isn't the case.
In fact studies show that those we would classify as "sissies" are split 3 ways between those who harbour gay tendencies with other males, those who consider themselves straight and love Women still (sissy lesbian), and those who desire to be as a gurl with other Trans Women. It's sad that about 30% of us perpetuate the stereotypes for all of us and this needs to slowly change in order for more of us to be accepted by Women from all walks of life over time.
The best part of attempting to reach out to Women to enlighten or show more of what sissies are as a whole is one doesn't need to expose themselves if they feel frightened to do so. There are a lot of different ways we all can do this, and I know one of the best ways to do this and have a little fun at the same time is by combating one of the worst traits in males today: the vulgar dick pic.
We all know of those self absorbed, slightly above cro-magnon, males who feel it a symbol of their pride to email a pic of their junk to Women. We see it everywhere, and we hear it everywhere how repulsed most Women are by this silly, moronic act.
As sissies we can kill 2 birds with one stone to combat this.....
Now what if that pretty little receptionist in your office who you secretly admire for her tasteful choices in clothes, shoes, and makeup, suddenly received an anonymous email with the above pic? Would She be surprised? You bet! Would She be a little shocked and maybe embarrassed? Perhaps. If it came with no other text, and wasn't vulgar in nature, what do you think Her lasting impression would be? If She didn't know who it came from, would She perhaps suspect someone at work sent it to Her? Maybe one of Her friends? Would She begin to wonder if someone She actually knows is wearing those panties? Would She perhaps save the pic and share it with Her Female friends the next time She saw them over drinks? I would imagine they all would share a good laugh, yes, but what else would it lead to? Women love to talk and share experiences and no doubt this could stimulate all sorts of shared experiences, some good, some bad from a sissy's point of view. But what if more and more 'vanilla' Women started receiving positive (non-vulgar) sissy images? You can be certain it would make them think of all sorts of things, but rather than just accepting the horrible stereotypes, perhaps it can provoke thought and curiosity to learn more about all of us. What could it hurt?
What other types of things could us sissies do to allow more and more Women of all walks of life know who we are and what we really are all about? What can you do this year to enable not only you but all sissy gurls to find a little more acceptance by those we love most; Women?
I challenge each one of you gurls who visits my blog to do your part this coming year and reach out via whatever medium you feel most comfortable with, to Women in your day to day life and start your own small campaign to provide positive reinforcement of sissy life to Women everywhere. You never know what it could lead to? Maybe the Woman of your dreams who you never thought would every be open minded to your inner ego, just might embrace what we are just a little bit more. Wouldn't that be a wonderful thing in this world....
Peace to you all and a Happy New Year!
Devina
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