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Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

September 17, 2025

Science Starting to Explain Sissy Shecock Addiction

 


 What is Gynandromorphophilia?   

The official definition is: Those of male genitalia who are sexually attracted to transgender women, but common beliefs have much to add. The ready-made remark speaks of repressed homosexuals who, refusing to have relationships with other men for fear of being outed, hypocritically take shelter in the arms and legs of transwomen.

Although this theory seems obvious to most, there are two major problems: it feels strongly transphobic and it is simply not true. Let’s start from the latter using the Hsu-Rosenthal-Miller-Bailey’s study published in the medical journal Psychological Medicine and titled “Who are the gynandromorphophilic ?”

The scientists recruited males who were looking for sex on the internet with other men, cisgender women (females whose gender identity match the sex assigned at birth), and transsexual women (females whose sex assigned at birth was male but identify psychologically and emotionally as women). The candidates had to declare their level of excitement toward other men, cisgender and transgender women. Then they had to watch pornographic movies in which men, cisgender or trans-women were having sex, while a machine measured the swelling of their penis.


The first thing the study demonstrated was that everyone’s arousal patterns matched the type declared in the initial phase, eliminating the  “I say one thing but another” factor. In fact, homosexual’s arousal patterns were very high when watching men to men sex, on average when watching trans-women, and with no activity when watching women only sex. Obviously, things went exactly the opposite with heterosexuals who said to not be attracted to transwomen.

What about the gynandromorphophilic test subjects? Their arousal ran high when watching transgender women sex, while their attraction towards cisgender women was equal to that of heterosexuals, and toward men was very low,  only slightly higher to that of heterosexuals. In short, the definition  of gynandromorphophilia is the more appropriate: men sexually attracted by transgender women. That is all. They are not repressed homosexuals. They can also be bisexual, but only in some cases.


However, to prove the existence of a prejudice is not enough. We must unearth the root cause, find out what it tells about us, our community, and our society. We must recognize that describing an attraction  towards transsexual women as homosexuality means to impose a binary system in which only cisgender men and women can feel and provoke arousal. A system that radically denies of transgender women gender identity and limits them to be surrogates.

Transwomen are disowned not only as women and as humans, but also as desirable people as some claim that one can’t be really attracted to them but rather used to satisfy the attraction toward someone else. Transgender women are diminished to a penis to which, almost by accident, have sprouted boobs. it is a very transphobic way of (not) thinking that is unknowingly rehashed by many homosexuals and even by some transexuals. Isn’t it disturbing?


 

As for final thoughts, there are a couple of observations. The first one is discouraging: the study on gynandromorphophilia indirectly demonstrates how often the attraction towards transsexual FTM (female to  male) – or perhaps their very existence – is not even contemplated by our society. The second one is a proposal: since the term  gynandromorphophilia really sounds terrifying, like it was a disease –  while we are simply speaking about a person who likes another – can we think of a more poised word?

It's so encouraging to see science begin to validate why sissies like me are so fundamentally attracted to Trans Women and Shecock, and at the same time feel a complete visceral rejection towards males altogether. Viva La Shecock!

 


Devina

September 1, 2025

Happy Birthday Lady Diva Cane - Sep 1 Domme of the Day!

 

A most Happy Birthday to the gracious Woman who made me the sissy I am today. Lady Diva Cane of Womania Empire, my Dominant big Sister, and the keeper of all my secrets and truth, words and deeds will never be able to repay Your life changing influence over me.

Love, Devina 

August 19, 2025

600 Days in Sissy Chastity & Other Random Thoughts

 Originally Posted Feb 16, 2019

 


Today marks my 600th day in sissy chastity. While normally I try and compose a singular thought and or message to my personal posts, today my mind is a swirl of a series of deep reflections and random thoughts about how I've arrived to this place right here and now.

The very first thing I did this morning was to send a text to Lady Diva Cane to thank her for this experience, and to thank Her for the warm cloak of Feminine power She has wrapped around me. Without Her guidance, nurturing and encouragement, nothing I have achieved as a chastity sissy sub would have been possible.

Which brings me to my next point: Gratitude

As sissies, subs, or subbies, we really ought to devote more time, being simply humble and grateful to the Women who have gifted us the truly life changing experiences that we are blessed to receive. If you truly want a more profound BDSM experience, express humility, and be grateful to those who bring the figments of your imagination to life.

Without Femdomination and the Women who live and breathe it, we are nothing.


Over the years I've often wondered about the series of events that combined in my life to have allowed me to view the world through sissy eyes. I've always been a bit of a chameleon, I was born out-of-time in a manner of speaking. Siblings, family & friends all around me were never in an age order like most people. I've spent much of my life with people either older or younger than me, and when I've spent time with those few that were near me in age and chronological proper order in their own families, I've often felt a bit uneasy. Maybe that's why the sissylife comes so naturally to me?

Thanks to Lady Diva's influence, and Her revealing to me that it was ok to be who I was, my sexual preposition has very much evolved in the past 5 years. My curiosity about Trans Women existed before I met Lady Diva and even Mistress Morganna, but now, its what my most natural desires are today. I haven't explored a male /Female relationship in many years, and in it's place a daily love and admiration for Trans Women has completely replaced those born biological feelings. I won't go deeper into that point but it has made me question the nature vs nurture debate within my own sexuality, and I'm not sure I have an answer

 


Never be ashamed of being a sissy. Embrace it gurls, you will be happier for it.

If you have learned to trust your gut in life, and it's telling you to explore your sissy side, do not suppress it. Be smart, be safe, and go for it. You will only regret not doing so sooner in life. For all the amazing things I've experienced, my only regrets are that I didn't start the moment after my first session with Mistress Morganna had concluded.

Somewhere in my head right now a bastardized version of Julio Iglacias' song To All The Girls I've Loved Before is going through my head. The lyrics are changed to All The Cocks I've Sucked Before... :)  I can be weird sometimes.

Being a sissy to me, means that I have a deeper love of Women than I ever could have as a male. It's not even close.

Being a sissy unfortunately often means you may never be able to express that love or live it in the manner you so badly want to.

To me the above pic is the absolute truth. I'm just thankful I can feel this way and be perfectly comfortable with myself about that. Being able to share this truth with more and more Women in my life has been a very rewarding thing.

The desire to suck Shecock in front of as many Women as possible just might be the strongest burning sissy desire in my life right now. The thought of it always makes my chastity device not fit very comfortably at all.

 


I don't know how long I will remain in chastity but the thought of a thousand days and thousand nights no longer terrifies me. Tomorrow means it would be only 399 days away.

Yesterday I had the biggest fully limp sissy leak in my life. It was as close to the volume of a normal cumshot that I could estimate. I smiled broadly to myself as it happened. This was one proud sissy to experience the sensation of knowing erections are meaningless.

We all can get to our happy place if we try. Starts by letting go..

 


In my pre sissy life before submitting to Femdomination, I never made love to a Woman with the intensity and single minded purpose of pleasing someone , like I do now when I suck Shecock. The ability to make a Shecock cum is a an emotional fulfillment like no other.

Either my coffee is wearing off or the swirl of thoughts in my brain has calmed down to something more orderly. Have a wonderful week everyone! 

August 4, 2025

Remembering Loni Anderson

 

Last night as the word spread that the legendary icon Loni Anderson passed from a lengthy illness, I was swept with a sadness much in the same way I did  when I leaned of Suzanne Somers passing.  As a child of the 80's I look back with a sense of gratitude that I got to live through an era when the "Bombshell" phrase meant something in terms of Movie/TV Actresses.  Loni Anderson stood among the very top of a group that included Suzanne Somers, Raquel Welsh, Farrah Fawcett, Susan Anton, Linda Carter, Heather Thomas, et al.

Theirs was a group of natural beauties, not pumped with fillers and augmentations (save for the copious amounts of hair spray but I digress) In my youth not many my age didn't have a Loni Anderson poster on their wall as the above shown poster must have adorned the walls of tens of millions around the world. I remember then as I did earlier today in finding the right photos to accompany my thoughts, of how perfect everything Loni wore looked on Her, then and into Her golden years. It's next to impossible to find a photo where She isn't stunning in anything.


 Of course Her explosion into Pop Culture was due to Her role in the legendary sit-com WKRP as the amazing Jennifer Marlowe. Back then my sissy seeds while having been sown years earlier, had still not germinated, but even then Loni was less of a fantasy sex symbol to me and more of a Feminine Priestess on some high mountain. Completely unattainable by mere mortals and a symbol of Feminine perfection from head to toe. Her character was strong, witty, powerful, classy, and just so perfectly Female in a time where bombshell actresses and models were not portrayed in the same way at all.  One could say Ms Marlowe was a Femdom icon as well, but not in a leather/fetish sense, but She commanded the natural power to make all males submit to Her wishes and whims.

Very much in similar ways that I shared in my personal tribute after the passing of Susanne Somers, I recall in my youth the admiration and appreciation of loni's amazing beauty and even before I realized my true sissy self, there was a deep desire of wishing I could look as beautiful as Loni always was. She was never a sex symbol I fantasized about but was always one I admired for Her natural Feminine perfection. In all the roles and appearances after WKRP went off the air, Loni was so perfect in everything She did from a symbol as a walking Goddess here on earth. 


 When I began to discover the sissy I would eventually become today, I have to pay homage to my sense of fashion cues and desires to try in my own way to achieve some sense of glamour that icons like Loni displayed. Every dress and outfit adorned Her perfectly even into Her later years. She was just amazing at any age.


Her natural power and radiance never stopped shining from within, and Her class and grace were evident for all to see.  Even in an appearance as a leather clad villain in a C grade Hollywood non classic showed Her amazing style and Female power if She chose to explore that side 

So it is hard to say goodbye to a Woman of my youth like Loni who was a symbol for everything that I saw and see still as amazing, powerful, strong, charismatic, and captivating as a Woman. As a sissy, She represented everything I could never be, but still inspired me to find my own Feminine path. We simply do not see many examples of the Loni Anderson's in today's world, so that's why Her loss is felt deeply for those of us who remember a time when Women like Her ruled the world in Their own way, and blazed a trail for Women to follow.

May She rest in peace.

Sincerely Sissy

Devina