Originally Posted April 6, 2019
Recently, I was lamenting the strife's that Lady Diva was enduring at the hands of those who are very much clueless as to how to properly approach, address, and interact with a Domme. Sadly these frustrations are endured by every Domme alive, most likely, as subbies who allow themselves to think with the little head that only gets blood flow occasionally, rarely take the time to learn the proper manners and skills in how to respectfully and politely reach out to a Domme.
In my own experiences, I've tried to share here what has worked for me to not only foster a very treasured Domme/sissy relationship, but genuine interpersonal friendships with Dominant Women, I once could only admire from afar. Each of these friendships has strengthened my bonds to who I am and choose to be as a sissy submissive. This week, an example of what I've tried to convey took place, and I wish to share it with you.
The captivating, and beautiful Domme in the photo above is the world renown Nikki Whiplash. From the moment I discovered who She was, I couldn't help but be fascinated by Her energy, Her personality, and Her tremendously captivating nature of self. She was one of the first people I followed on my twitter account and I've always felt very fortunate on the rare occasion when She has gifted me with a like or an emoji to a tweet of mine. Ms Whiplash surely would be one of the most bombarded Dommes via email and social media, and I've always felt very blessed whenever She would take a small moment to acknowledge me in any way at all. Being that I live an ocean away, I've never thought it proper to email Her or to pester Her in any way that would waster Her time, so I've always been content and happy to continue to admire Her from afar, with a pining to one day share even a nice cup of tea with someone I find so fascinating.
This week, something very lovely happened when Ms Whiplash put out a tweet that I couldn't help but respond to in a bit of a cheeky manner. That my reply made Her smile and coaxed a bit of a chuckle was all I needed to put a smile on my face that day. If any of us puts a smile on another's face through a tiny effort of our own, then it's a good thing. So I decided to reply with some sincere gratitude that She took a moment of Her valuable time to share with me.
And with that, a few moments later I was off on my day, still smiling quietly to myself at my good fortune, bestowed by Ms Whiplash. As often has been the case in my sissy life, a little while later, a gift of Femdomination came calling and I experienced one of the biggest sissy leaks I've had since my lengthy sissy chastity experience. I was thrilled as I leaked fully limp what would have once in a previous life would have been a rather sizable cumshot. But now in my sissy life my leaks happen more as a result of emotional and mental stimulation as opposed to physical, and I smile broadly with pride each time a sissy leak happens.
And with that I was blessed to have had a tiny chat with someone I've admired for such a long while. It truly made my day! I thanked Ms Whiplash very much and said a few sincere words of admiration that indeed came from the heart, and with that W/we were both off spinning in our own orbits for the remainder of the week. It's important to point out that I did not continue to pester Her for more time and attention. I was enormously GRATEFUL for Her gift of time and attention She chose to give.
As subbies, one of the first profound lessons one can learn is to be fulfilled by what manner of interaction and /or reward a Domme may choose to bestow upon us. Be grateful, stay humble and be open to receive the gifts of Femdomination where and whenever they occur. Ms Whiplash enriched my sissy life by one small act of kindness, and inspired me to share this with others so that they may hopefully find their own gifts of Femdomination in their lives.
Be kind, be polite, be patient, and be humble, and you will experience things you may never have dreamed of.
Thank You Ms Whiplash!
Sincerely Sissy
Devina Cox