Happy Chastember!

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Devina's Domme of the Day Chastember 1

 

Chastity Season Continues! Welcome Nocumber!

 

Let us welcome the 3rd month of the Chastity season. Perhaps you experimented for a day or two in Chastember and geared yourself up for a full Locktober lockdown of your itty bitty clitty? But now that Lockober has ended and you might think you can go back to your old ways, here comes the most important month in the chastity season; Nocumber. 

Why?

 

Have you noticed how pleased your Domme has been in your willingness to lock away that silly appendage between your legs? Does Her smiles mean something to you? Wouldn't you want to give Her another gift of accepting another 30 days locked up for Her enjoyment? You should.

Real submission involves accepting your role beneath a Woman, and showing Her that your gratification is now linked to HER gratification is a sign that your level of submissiveness is deepening. When you first tried chastity, I'm sure you thought that a day or two or three was an insane amount of time. I know I did. But if you have come to day 31 or longer, what's another 4 weeks, really?

 Maybe you've been lucky enough to experience your first sissy leak? Wasn't that amazing?? Did the sensation resonate deeply with your inner girl? Wouldn't it be awesome to cum that way all the time? You are so very close to a sissy breakthrough that you may never have thought possible. So embrace Nocumber and push yourself to new heights. You won't regret it. I haven't, as today is Nocumber 3050th for me :)))

The Chastity Season: Chastember Preparations - Locktober Celebrations

 Originally Posted Locktober 13, 2018

I remember when I never thought I could endure chastity. It was only a couple short years ago. In that time, I've evolved as a sissy to understand it's meaning, and how it's an essential part of transforming a panty boi into a real sissy with real Feminine physiological experiences and urges. Even more satisfying has been the rise of the now established #Locktober movement. I strongly feel that an entire chastity season should be established as a celebration of Femdomination.

Chastember

Locktober

Nocumber

Denycember

Chastember should allow all newbies to chastity to dip their toe in the water. Nobody is ready for the changes chastity brings to their submissive lives, but a primer before Locktober is essential in my opinion.

Locktober is the celebrated chastity month now, and besides the observed influx of drive by internet "Dommes" looking to cash in on subbies who may not be as experienced as others, Locktober is the month where one makes a commitment to chastity. As one who is approaching their 500th day of sissy chastity, I can't help but be amused at the complaining and whining I see online by subbies who complain about being locked for days or a week. Just wait when month after month goes by and you find yourself in quiet acceptance of the sacrifice you made!

Nocumber & Denycember. This should be a natural extension of the achievement of Locktober for those who have reached a milestone of 31 days in chastity. Think of how happy you just made your Domme? Don't you think She would be more pleased if you committed to another month for Her satisfaction? Or two? Beyond?

 

Just like those who quit smoking, it takes about a month for the body to wean itself from the previous habits and new ones begin. The same goes for chastity. My first chastity periods were a day, then a weekend, then a week, until finally going for 37 days. My next chastity period, of which I am still in, is as of today 474 days, and now I am asking myself if 1000 days could be possible and my sissy brain now could see this happening. As my sissy clit has slowly begun to shrink, somewhere around 20%, my reward reveals itself daily of having a sissyclit that is only useful for accessorizing and being laughed at by other Dommes and Women. And that makes it all worth it.

Sincerely Sissy

Devina 

Chastember becomes Locktober

 

For those wishing to impress the Dominant Women in their lives, you still have time to get a head start on the oft celebrated month of Locktober, by starting earlier in Chastember, and not just doing the minimum. Women had minimal effort. You should prove to them your devotion by being exceptional.

 Chastember, Locktober, Nocumber, Denycember. The Chastity Season.

Or you could devote yourself to permanent chastity and change your life for the better! 

Day 3000 Devoted to Sissy Chastity!

 

Three Thousand Days Ago

That was the last time I selfishly used my sissy clit for my own urges, needs, and desires.

I don't fully remember the switch that flipped in my sissy brain that made me decide it was time to make another longer attempt of sissy chastity to surpass my personal mark of 37 days, but whatever it was, a spiritual awakening perhaps, took me down a road that has forever changed my life as a whole, and how I see myself as a sissy in this world.

My journey under the cloak of Lady Diva Cane and Maitresse Cathie LaDivine as my Femdom spiritual guides, has been nothing short of transformational from inside my soul. I could write volumes as how one's entire world opens up to the power Feminine energy around you when you discard all of your old filthy urges and devote yourself to something better. Women's happiness.

My chastity journey has been physical and mental. Sometimes I'm locked, others not. At the permission of Lady Diva, I am allowed a few time a year to develop my hands free sissygasm techniques, in order to deepen the neurological pathways in my sissy brain to learn how to only achieve pleasure from sissygasms, both physically, visually, auditory, and emotionally.  My devotion to honour Them prevents me from abusing any granted privileges, nor would I ever want to.

Over 3000 days, my entire sexuality has been rewired and reprogrammed. I only find stimulation through Shecock. I can't even think of how long it has been since I fantasized about being with  a Woman that I am unable to please. Truth be told, I do not feel as if I am lacking anything as a result.

Being a sissy means being devoted to serving Women, not pursuing Them.

Being a sissy means I worship Shecock to please and amuse Women

And being a sissy means that is the only path for me 

The past thousand days has gone by incredibly quickly. Unlike the custom locks i giften Lady Diva and Ms Cathie, another thousand days is worth mentioning but i will save larger gifts for more prominent milestones.

For those who think long term chastity is a mountain to tall to climb, I am here to tell you, not only is it possible, the view back to where you began from here is breathtaking.

Happy Chastember to every Dominant Woman who has inspired, encouraged, and congratulated me. My journey is in part, my way of thanking You all. 

Lets all walk together on towards better places for this sissy to be under Your Guidance

 

Love 

Devina 

 

Sissy Archives: Locked 700 Days and Counting

 Originally Posted May 28, 2019

 Today marks a proud milestone for me. 700 days in sissy chastity. 700 days with no stimulation of my sissy clit. 700 days with no release except my natural sissy leaks. 700 days to honour all the Dominant Women in my life that I hold near and dear. 1 Year, 11 Months.

I could never have believed it possible, but through Femdomination, everything is possible.

I now embark on my Chastiversary month looking ahead to the 2 year mark next month. Each milestone still blows my sissy brain to bits.

The best part of my sissy chastity journey is that even when not in a device for periods of time, I no longer even WANT to play with my sissy clit. Seriously. The thought of how doing something so foolish after transforming my mind and body this long, never mind the disappointment that would fall upon Lady Diva and Maitresse Cathie should I slip would be something I simply could not bear.

 

The only real gift I can offer Lady Diva and Maitresse Cathie in return for all they have bestowed upon me is my continued dedication and the physiological changes that are occurring, rendering my sissy clit slowly and most certainly more and more flaccid and useless. In the last 6-8 months I can count on one hand the number of times I've managed to experienced a turgid sissy clit enough to cause discomfort in my CB6000s or Holy Trainer.

The longer one gives themselves to something greater than themselves, the less consequential the thing they sacrificed is, and the more meaningful the road ahead becomes. I look forward to the milestone Lady Diva has discussed with me and I want nothing more than to deliver that to both Her and Maitresse Cathie. Before I reach that, my second chastiversary will occur. One year each in honour of the two Women who have encouraged, reinforced, and give me strength and confidence to be the best sissy I can possibly be in any way that I can. I get misty eyed at their joy and pride as day after day, week after week, month after month, and soon year after year has receded in the rear view mirror, putting my old world behind me as I connect with the real sissy me, more and more each day.

 

Tomorrow begins a new journey to my 2nd sissy chastiversary. Today I beam with pride at how far I have come by not cumming at all!

 

Author's Note:

Since this post I have happily exceeded 4 times that amount and am days away from another massive milestone. Looking back at my sissy chastity journey like this makes my heart swell with pride that my sissy life has brought me so far.

Love Devina 

#Chastember is Here. You Know What to Do!

 

 As the song says, "It's the Most Wonderful Time...of the Year"  The Chastity Season is upon us! 

There was a time in my sissy life when I couldn't ever see myself being a proponent of chastity. At that time I couldn't understand how it could ever fit into who Devina was at that time. The problem was that I had not begun to evolve psychologically as a sissy, where I had yet to understand and embrace what physiological changes were to come that would allow me to get to a place where not only was sissy chastity possible, but an essential step in becoming the sissy I needed to be.

Like many early barriers in my sissy journey, I started to learn that sissy chastity was another barrier that stood in my way, and once the curiosity got the best of me, I purchased my first CB6000S (smallest of course) and began experimenting. What stood out immediately was how my sissy clit looked when locked. And it was then I began to realize that the art form of being a sissy in chastity was moreso what being locked represented than what it denied. Being locked was a further relinquishing of what remaining fragments of influence my emasculated male ego (EME) was clinging onto. I needed to change that.

 

My first endurance of chastity began with what was then, seemingly excruciatingly long goals: 3 days. As I write this now, being in sissy chastity for 1 year, 2 months, and 4 days, I can't help but laugh at the absurdity of that first goal, yet it was crucial. For a sissy to develop and flourish, her journey is a series of small steps over time until one becomes so far away from where they first started, that they truly are now a new person.

So 3 days was achieved. Then a few weeks later I managed to get to 11. Then later 15 days, each time with the encouragement of Lady Diva and Her positive reinforcement providing me the essential energy I needed to reward Her with my efforts. Then I managed to hit 37 days and was quite proud of myself.

The decision to attempt something longer came with another sissy evolution within me. The commitment to myself that I only wanted to experience what sexual gratification was like in as Womanly manner as possible meant that I had to devote myself to only experiencing sex as a 100% bottom sissy. That meant no more direct sissy clit attention. Sex had to mean that my satisfaction has to be from now on from being penetrated, and to develop the mental and emotional connection to a sissygasm via my p-spot. To do this, sissy chastity was now crucial.

Now we fast forward to approaching Day 3000, and finding myself light years beyond what I ever thought was possible, my sissy chastity is now evolved beyond a physical change and moreso a mental new normal. I know now that I wouldn't require being locked to prevent me from needing my sexual gratification through my asspussy. Reaching mental chastity has been something I never thought possible, and the gratification of my sissy leaks being fully limp and noticing my sissy clit has been slowly shrinking on it's own is a tremendous source of sissy pride that I share with Lady Diva.

Chastember is here. Time for your own sissy journey to begin. Locktober is next, with Nocumber and Denycember following. This is your chance to embark upon your own sissy journey, that might open new doors in your evolution. You too can suddenly find yourself locked in devotion and loving it! 

Devina 

Celebrate The Chastity Season: Denycember!

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Oh, We're Half Way There...

 

Nocumber 1st marks the half way part of the Chastity season. Chastember was the start, and the most celebrated month of Locktober is past, but that doesn't mean you should give up on your progress into a lifestyle modification journey that you are now on. 

Nocumber is a month of pure devotion to the Dominant Woman in your life. Asking Her to remain locked is a sign of love and commitment. It means you have begin to learn the lessons of chastity and it's starting to deepen your submission and devotion to Her. This month will be where your D/s relationship with grow. She will begin to see the fruits of all Her energy She has put into making you something more than a lump of male clay. 

Nocumber is a time to celebrate a deeper submission to Femdomination. Rejoice!

Chastember - The Time to Prepare

 

Chastember is the kickoff to the Chastity Season. If you are unsure of starting a chastity journey, this is the time to purchase your first cage and experiment. I was once like you. Curious, apprehensive, but mostly completely unaware of how the act of deep submission of chastity would change me mentally more than physically. 7 years plus into my chastity journey, I feel it's my duty now to share and encourage other sissies to begin their own journey.

When it comes to buying your first, comfort should be front of mind. Today there are all sorts of resin based materials that have some pliability with body heat to help with wearing. The sensations of your beginning can be intense, so comfort is key.

When it comes to the size of your first cage, begin with taking an honest measurement of your soon to be sissy clitty when you first wake up. This should be your starting size. Your sissy clitty will be this size the majority of the time and going too big will soon prove itself a waste of money and time as the fit will be awful. 

You WILL collect more cages as time goes on, and each one will be smaller. The old ones make nice gifts to your Domme to show Her in real time your progress in your slowly shrinking sissy clit.

When you come to your Domme, prepared and ready for your first Locktober experience, She will be so pleased that you took the time to prepare yourself during Chastember. Your bond to Her will begin to grow and take you places you have never thought possible.

Chastember - Go Deeper Sissy

 

 There are a lot of sissies that truthfully, don’t have what it takes to be a bonafide sissy that is worthy of the name. I think it all begins with the proper mindset. Becoming a sissy to be proud of will require you to exorcise any ‘macho-man’ desires still left inside of you, or as I refer to it the EME (emasculated male ego)  A true sissy is no longer a real male, but a chastised sissy. Being a sissy means you are no longer required to control anything or anyone. Your only role is now to perform the duties of a sissy for your Mistress. You simply do what you’re told to do. Couldn’t be any simpler than that.

 

The next issue is body hair. Women shave because it’s Feminine and sexy. As a sissy, you need to start shaving from head to toe…. no body hair allowed! Once you start to shave, a shift will begin to take place inside of your head. A transformation from male to sissy. You will be amazed at how quickly you become proficient at it. Before you know it, you will look forward to shaving more often.

Time to talk about clothes. Real Women adore the sexy feeling that soft, silky fabrics have against their body. If you work outside of your home, a pair of panties, garter belt, and nylons should always be worn under your work attire. When home alone, thong panties with a matching bra along with high heels should ALWAYS be worn. Start keeping your panties, bras and lingerie in one of your regular dresser drawers. There is no need to hide them away any longer. You are now becoming a true sissy so start acting like one.

You need to wear high heels constantly as you will need the practice to learn how to walk properly in them. This will take some time. As a new chastity sissy, you have a lot of catching up to do. You eventually will become very comfortable wearing heels, so much so that the time will arrive that you will never want to take them off (and why would you)!

 

You are beginning to look and feel like a real sissy. There is one problem though…. your undersized and under performing sissy clit. That's why your sissy clit is kept under lock and key. The only way you should ever be fucking a girl again is with a strap on dildo or face dildo. That’s your role as a sissy…. to serve…. preferably in the most humiliating, and frustrating way possible. If you don’t have a chastity device yet, it’s time to start thinking about ordering one. This is what Chastember is for! Long term denial will keep you in a constant state of arousal that will enhance your ability to perform your sissy duties in outstanding fashion. 

 

A true sissy wants to always look as sexy and desirable as possible. Skinny is sexy! You will look better in Feminine clothes with an in-shape body. You are no longer a macho-man-pig that eats pizza and drinks beer. Sissies don’t do that. When you acquire that thin body that looks fabulous in your sexy sissy outfits, you will be super motivated to stay sleek and slim.

Let’s talk make-up. A capable make-up job will add the finishing touches to your sissy persona. If you don’t have anyone to help you out with this, it’s really not a bad idea to learn how to apply make-up yourself. This will take some time and practice to become good at, so start practising now! Besides the essential stuff to have in your make-up kit like foundation, powder, eye shadow, eye liner and lipstick, you should also add a lip-liner pencil in order to draw in fuller, sissy-like lips. And nothing will turn you into a desirable sissy faster than a set of extra long false eyelashes.

To recap, you’ve come to terms that your lot in life is as a sissy and completely given up on the idea of being a male any longer.

You’re now smooth and sexy, as in hairless.

You wear bras, panties, high heels and lingerie every chance you get.

Your sissy clit is now locked up (as it should be) and you are beginning to feel the benefits of long term orgasm denial.

You are losing weight as you want to be the best looking sissy you can be.

You’re taking every opportunity to improve on your make-up skills.

 

Being a true sissy is all about letting go of the need and desire to be a male any longer. It is so freeing; there is nothing to worry about any more. You no longer need to be afraid to approach Women. You will never again be nervous about asking a Girl out as you won’t be doing that any more. There will be no anxiety associated with getting it up and keeping it up. There are no dates to pay for or presents to buy. All your extra money will now be going towards make-up, lingerie and high heels. There is nothing more for you to concern yourself with other than looking as pretty, sexy and Feminine as possible.

Once you admit to yourself and the world who you truly are (a sissy), everything naturally just falls into place. You now think and act like a gurl. But remember, in order to completely remove any last remnants of masculinity, your dick must be locked up and denied. The only way to effectively do this is with a chastity device. Happy Chastember!