#Chastember is Here. You Know What to Do!

 

 As the song says, "It's the Most Wonderful Time...of the Year"  The Chastity Season is upon us! 

There was a time in my sissy life when I couldn't ever see myself being a proponent of chastity. At that time I couldn't understand how it could ever fit into who Devina was at that time. The problem was that I had not begun to evolve psychologically as a sissy, where I had yet to understand and embrace what physiological changes were to come that would allow me to get to a place where not only was sissy chastity possible, but an essential step in becoming the sissy I needed to be.

Like many early barriers in my sissy journey, I started to learn that sissy chastity was another barrier that stood in my way, and once the curiosity got the best of me, I purchased my first CB6000S (smallest of course) and began experimenting. What stood out immediately was how my sissy clit looked when locked. And it was then I began to realize that the art form of being a sissy in chastity was moreso what being locked represented than what it denied. Being locked was a further relinquishing of what remaining fragments of influence my emasculated male ego (EME) was clinging onto. I needed to change that.

 

My first endurance of chastity began with what was then, seemingly excruciatingly long goals: 3 days. As I write this now, being in sissy chastity for 1 year, 2 months, and 4 days, I can't help but laugh at the absurdity of that first goal, yet it was crucial. For a sissy to develop and flourish, her journey is a series of small steps over time until one becomes so far away from where they first started, that they truly are now a new person.

So 3 days was achieved. Then a few weeks later I managed to get to 11. Then later 15 days, each time with the encouragement of Lady Diva and Her positive reinforcement providing me the essential energy I needed to reward Her with my efforts. Then I managed to hit 37 days and was quite proud of myself.

The decision to attempt something longer came with another sissy evolution within me. The commitment to myself that I only wanted to experience what sexual gratification was like in as Womanly manner as possible meant that I had to devote myself to only experiencing sex as a 100% bottom sissy. That meant no more direct sissy clit attention. Sex had to mean that my satisfaction has to be from now on from being penetrated, and to develop the mental and emotional connection to a sissygasm via my p-spot. To do this, sissy chastity was now crucial.

Now we fast forward to approaching Day 3000, and finding myself light years beyond what I ever thought was possible, my sissy chastity is now evolved beyond a physical change and moreso a mental new normal. I know now that I wouldn't require being locked to prevent me from needing my sexual gratification through my asspussy. Reaching mental chastity has been something I never thought possible, and the gratification of my sissy leaks being fully limp and noticing my sissy clit has been slowly shrinking on it's own is a tremendous source of sissy pride that I share with Lady Diva.

Chastember is here. Time for your own sissy journey to begin. Locktober is next, with Nocumber and Denycember following. This is your chance to embark upon your own sissy journey, that might open new doors in your evolution. You too can suddenly find yourself locked in devotion and loving it! 

Devina 

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Oh, We're Half Way There...

 

Nocumber 1st marks the half way part of the Chastity season. Chastember was the start, and the most celebrated month of Locktober is past, but that doesn't mean you should give up on your progress into a lifestyle modification journey that you are now on. 

Nocumber is a month of pure devotion to the Dominant Woman in your life. Asking Her to remain locked is a sign of love and commitment. It means you have begin to learn the lessons of chastity and it's starting to deepen your submission and devotion to Her. This month will be where your D/s relationship with grow. She will begin to see the fruits of all Her energy She has put into making you something more than a lump of male clay. 

Nocumber is a time to celebrate a deeper submission to Femdomination. Rejoice!

International Chastity Day

 I'm not sure why Jan 14 is international Chastity Day. I think it would be better suited on Aug 31st, the day before the Chastity Season kicks off with Chastember, Locktober, Nocumber, and Denycember. But post chastity season (for those who sadly have not carried forward yet into long term chastity) celebration is welcome too I guess.

So many Women have not yet realized Their true power as Women over males and chastity is a key too to seize Their natural power and build upon it to create a better world around them.  I keep being more heartened to see chastity exploding within the BDSM world. Where once upon a time it was the domian of a select few, now in the sissy world, we are all expected to be locked or incorporate chastity into our regular training under Dominant Women.

So my hope is that as many non kink involved Women around the world keep being exposed to the concept of harnessing Their Female power and that more and more begin to change the world by locking up as many cocks as possible, and doing the planet an enormous benefit!

As for me, today is day 2393 in chastity and it has changed my life for the better, forever!

Devina

The Best Gift You Can Give a Woman

 This Denycember, there is only one gift you can give of yourself that truly signifies your devotion to the Dominant Woman in your life, and that is the complete control over your most destructive urges. If you haven't committed to the chastity season beginning in Chastember, Locktober, and Nocumber, you can still show your Domme that you intend to evolve into the new year and let Her shape your more docile, well mannered future, where your filthy urges no longer matter, and Her satisfaction is the ONLY thing that matters!

Nocumber Benefits

 

The Chastity Season is Not Over Yet!

 Chastember, Locktober, Nocumber.....are you ready to keep going?

With XXXmas around the corner, the best gift a sissy can give is the one that keeps giving. You continued chastity journey is the one true thing of value you can keep gifting your Domme. 

Denycember is coming tomorrow. You won't be...

This Morning on FDTV - Nocumber Talk

 

Made it Through Locktober? Not So Fast...

Was this Locktober your first step into the magical world of sissy chastity? Did you set yourself a new personal best of being locked? Or did you make it the whole calendar month?

More importantly, WHAT DID YOU LEARN?

As a submissive, one thing we all learn is that our Domme's are not impressed with just "doing the minimum". They want to see continuous improvement from us all. So there is no better way to show your true devotion to Her by embracing the month of Nocumber.
 

The science says to break a physical addiction such as smoking requires 21 days of abstinence, then the rest id mental. I'd wager for life long masturbators, that may be a little longer. My first steps into sissy chastity began at 3 days, then the next time nine days, and then 37 days before embarking on my current sissy chastity journey of about 6.5 years.  By 31 days you should be noticing subtle changes in your psyche. You are probably less aggressive in your demeanour, your patience has increased, and you all consuming thoughts of "rubbing one out" have certainly subsided. This is laying a foundation for what can become a much better version of you.

So ask the Dominant Woman in your life to show you the way further than just the minimum of Locktober. Embrace Nocumber and set new goals for yourself and show how devoted you really ar to Her!