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All We Need Is Love
Originally posted Dec 18, 2015, with an update afterword
Recently, I noticed that an Iconic Woman in the world of Alt lifestyles, had quietly dropped off the radar, and since I have had the immense pleasure of being allowed into Her world albeit from a distant part of the globe, Her absence suddenly tugged on my Feminine heartstrings, out of concern for Her as a person. This is a Woman that I have long admired, not only as an Icon, but as a Woman. She is the type of person that not only would I wish to one day kneel before in all my gurliness, but so far beyond that, She is the type of Woman that I would love to converse with, laugh with, share with, and embrace as a true friend over a glass of wine (or several) ;) . To me She is to me what a Woman truly represents. She is strong but caring, bold yet nurturing, steely yet playful, demanding yet generous, but above all powerful due to Her loving nature deep down.
Being fortunate enough to have Her email, I decided that I would reach out with a note of concern, but moreso with thoughts of warmth, and loving energy in return, should She be facing things that were troubling Her. All of us who embrace a lifestyle outside the norm, are fully aware of the problems the vanilla world can bring to our personal happiness, and it was out of my deeper Feminine concern that She wasn't experiencing something tragic.
Her reply today calmed my worst fears, but it was sad to learn that indeed She was dealing with situations affecting Her and Her loved ones. It was Her genuine sense of appreciation of my concern for Her well being, that in turn rewarded me for trusting my Female intuition. To know that you have touched another's life in a positive way is a gift that so many of us experience nowhere near enough. In a world in which all Dommes, sissies, and subs reside in, which is so dominated by the most basic and raw of desires, and selfish demands and expectations, we all need to remember that the Women we adore, admire, worship, and love, are real human beings, with real feelings, real emotions, and real hurdles they too have to endure.
We all should find ways to humble ourselves, and find ways to show true heartfelt human empathy for those Women who due to their Feminine strength and radiance, are forced to suffer untold slings and arrows that we are often oblivious and unaware of. A Woman is the universe's most brilliant and special creations, the giver of life and love. Without them we are nothing, as humans first, as sissies and subs a distant second.
It's my sincere wish that the issues being faced by this extraordinary Woman, soon dissipate, for Her sake only and always. I am so grateful, and humbled by the gifts You have shared with me in terms of Your time, Your words and Your friendship, as they are truly special gems that reside in my heart and soul, both the gurlie and vanilla ones. That cosmic hug being sent is one I sincerely hope to share in person one day, with someone so wonderfully special as You.
With Love, Light, and Warmth
Devina
Author's Update: Sadly the events that began in this story 9 years ago reared their ugly head in even worse ways a few years ago and this person who is so dear to me has completely withdrawn to begin a new life and to rebuild shattered parts of themselves. I continue to send love in all ways in order to help them try and heal what may never be able.
If you know someone who is struggling, never stop letting them know that you genuinely care, even if you stop getting responses. Your energy and love, if sincere and pure will reach .