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Chastember - The Time to Prepare
Chastember is the kickoff to the Chastity Season. If you are unsure of starting a chastity journey, this is the time to purchase your first cage and experiment. I was once like you. Curious, apprehensive, but mostly completely unaware of how the act of deep submission of chastity would change me mentally more than physically. 7 years plus into my chastity journey, I feel it's my duty now to share and encourage other sissies to begin their own journey.
When it comes to buying your first, comfort should be front of mind. Today there are all sorts of resin based materials that have some pliability with body heat to help with wearing. The sensations of your beginning can be intense, so comfort is key.
When it comes to the size of your first cage, begin with taking an honest measurement of your soon to be sissy clitty when you first wake up. This should be your starting size. Your sissy clitty will be this size the majority of the time and going too big will soon prove itself a waste of money and time as the fit will be awful.
You WILL collect more cages as time goes on, and each one will be smaller. The old ones make nice gifts to your Domme to show Her in real time your progress in your slowly shrinking sissy clit.
When you come to your Domme, prepared and ready for your first Locktober experience, She will be so pleased that you took the time to prepare yourself during Chastember. Your bond to Her will begin to grow and take you places you have never thought possible.
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Chastember - Go Deeper Sissy
There are a lot of sissies that truthfully, don’t have what it takes to be a bonafide sissy that is worthy of the name. I think it all begins with the proper mindset. Becoming a sissy to be proud of will require you to exorcise any ‘macho-man’ desires still left inside of you, or as I refer to it the EME (emasculated male ego) A true sissy is no longer a real male, but a chastised sissy. Being a sissy means you are no longer required to control anything or anyone. Your only role is now to perform the duties of a sissy for your Mistress. You simply do what you’re told to do. Couldn’t be any simpler than that.
The next issue is body hair. Women shave because it’s Feminine and sexy. As a sissy, you need to start shaving from head to toe…. no body hair allowed! Once you start to shave, a shift will begin to take place inside of your head. A transformation from male to sissy. You will be amazed at how quickly you become proficient at it. Before you know it, you will look forward to shaving more often.
Time to talk about clothes. Real Women adore the sexy feeling that soft, silky fabrics have against their body. If you work outside of your home, a pair of panties, garter belt, and nylons should always be worn under your work attire. When home alone, thong panties with a matching bra along with high heels should ALWAYS be worn. Start keeping your panties, bras and lingerie in one of your regular dresser drawers. There is no need to hide them away any longer. You are now becoming a true sissy so start acting like one.
You need to wear high heels constantly as you will need the practice to learn how to walk properly in them. This will take some time. As a new chastity sissy, you have a lot of catching up to do. You eventually will become very comfortable wearing heels, so much so that the time will arrive that you will never want to take them off (and why would you)!
You are beginning to look and feel like a real sissy. There is one problem though…. your undersized and under performing sissy clit. That's why your sissy clit is kept under lock and key. The only way you should ever be fucking a girl again is with a strap on dildo or face dildo. That’s your role as a sissy…. to serve…. preferably in the most humiliating, and frustrating way possible. If you don’t have a chastity device yet, it’s time to start thinking about ordering one. This is what Chastember is for! Long term denial will keep you in a constant state of arousal that will enhance your ability to perform your sissy duties in outstanding fashion.
A true sissy wants to always look as sexy and desirable as possible. Skinny is sexy! You will look better in Feminine clothes with an in-shape body. You are no longer a macho-man-pig that eats pizza and drinks beer. Sissies don’t do that. When you acquire that thin body that looks fabulous in your sexy sissy outfits, you will be super motivated to stay sleek and slim.
Let’s talk make-up. A capable make-up job will add the finishing touches to your sissy persona. If you don’t have anyone to help you out with this, it’s really not a bad idea to learn how to apply make-up yourself. This will take some time and practice to become good at, so start practising now! Besides the essential stuff to have in your make-up kit like foundation, powder, eye shadow, eye liner and lipstick, you should also add a lip-liner pencil in order to draw in fuller, sissy-like lips. And nothing will turn you into a desirable sissy faster than a set of extra long false eyelashes.
To recap, you’ve come to terms that your lot in life is as a sissy and completely given up on the idea of being a male any longer.
You’re now smooth and sexy, as in hairless.
You wear bras, panties, high heels and lingerie every chance you get.
Your sissy clit is now locked up (as it should be) and you are beginning to feel the benefits of long term orgasm denial.
You are losing weight as you want to be the best looking sissy you can be.
You’re taking every opportunity to improve on your make-up skills.
Being a true sissy is all about letting go of the need and desire to be a male any longer. It is so freeing; there is nothing to worry about any more. You no longer need to be afraid to approach Women. You will never again be nervous about asking a Girl out as you won’t be doing that any more. There will be no anxiety associated with getting it up and keeping it up. There are no dates to pay for or presents to buy. All your extra money will now be going towards make-up, lingerie and high heels. There is nothing more for you to concern yourself with other than looking as pretty, sexy and Feminine as possible.
Once you admit to yourself and the world who you truly are (a sissy), everything naturally just falls into place. You now think and act like a gurl. But remember, in order to completely remove any last remnants of masculinity, your dick must be locked up and denied. The only way to effectively do this is with a chastity device. Happy Chastember!