The Evolution of Miss Devina Cox: December 2024

December 31, 2024

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Part of my own personal growth as a sissy for the New Year is to find ways to reach out more to Women who are not a part of any Alt-lifestyles to give them glimpses of sissy life. One of the things I feel more and more Women need to be exposed to is the fallacy that those who choose to live parts or all of their lives in their Feminine ego's and wardrobes, are all closet gays, and this simply isn't the case.

In fact studies show that those we would classify as "sissies" are split 3 ways between those who harbour gay tendencies with other males, those who consider themselves straight and love Women still (sissy lesbian), and those who desire to be as a gurl with other Trans Women. It's sad that about 30% of us perpetuate the stereotypes for all of us and this needs to slowly change in order for more of us to be accepted by Women from all walks of life over time.

The best part of attempting to reach out to Women to enlighten or show more of what sissies are as a whole is one doesn't need to expose themselves if they feel frightened to do so. There are a lot of different ways we all can do this, and I know one of the best ways to do this and have a little fun at the same time is by combating one of the worst traits in males today: the vulgar dick pic.

We all know of those self absorbed, slightly above cro-magnon, males who feel it a symbol of their pride to email a pic of their junk to Women. We see it everywhere, and we hear it everywhere how repulsed most Women are by this silly, moronic act.

As sissies we can kill 2 birds with one stone to combat this.....

Now what if that pretty little receptionist in your office who you secretly admire for her tasteful choices in clothes, shoes, and makeup, suddenly received an anonymous email with the above pic? Would She be surprised? You bet! Would She be a little shocked and maybe embarrassed? Perhaps. If it came with no other text, and wasn't vulgar in nature, what do you think Her lasting impression would be? If She didn't know who it came from, would She perhaps suspect someone at work sent it to Her? Maybe one of Her friends? Would She begin to wonder if someone She actually knows is wearing those panties? Would She perhaps save the pic and share it with Her Female friends the next time She saw them over drinks? I would imagine they all would share a good laugh, yes, but what else would it lead to? Women love to talk and share experiences and no doubt this could stimulate all sorts of shared experiences, some good, some bad from a sissy's point of view. But what if more and more 'vanilla' Women started receiving positive (non-vulgar) sissy images? You can be certain it would make them think of all sorts of things, but rather than just accepting the horrible stereotypes, perhaps it can provoke thought and curiosity to learn more about all of us. What could it hurt?

What other types of things could us sissies do to allow more and more Women of all walks of life know who we are and what we really are all about? What can you do this year to enable not only you but all sissy gurls to find a little more acceptance by those we love most; Women?

I challenge each one of you gurls who visits my blog to do your part this coming year and reach out via whatever medium you feel most comfortable with, to Women in your day to day life and start your own small campaign to provide positive reinforcement of sissy life to Women everywhere. You never know what it could lead to? Maybe the Woman of your dreams who you never thought would every be open minded to your inner ego, just might embrace what we are just a little bit more. Wouldn't that be a wonderful thing in this world....

Peace to you all and a Happy New Year!

Devina

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December 29, 2024

Winter Public Service Announcement

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A reminder to those under the guidance of Womania Empire, that your taxes are due by Jan 5! Mine are paid ;)

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Time to curl up with some of my favourite reading material..

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December 28, 2024

The Gift of Giving

Over the Holidays I was having one of my regular chats with Lady Diva, who I often refer to as my Dominant Big Sister, as much as my Mistress. O/our relationship, while clearly defined within the D/s boundaries, has blossomed over the years to where W/we can chat about anything, like girlfriends do, from emotions to shower heads, and everything in between.

This week, I was sharing my gratitude over Her influence in my sisssy life, that has simply become part of my everyday life in the Feminine traits of gratitude and empathy. These traits are centered around how I interact with Women in all aspects of my life, and recognizing those traits has helped me become a better sissy and develop a more well rounded Feminine soul.

As Lady Diva put it so well, "Most don't work on the inside.", when I made the comment that it's easy to let panties, stockings, lingerie, etc shape your Feminine exterior, but working on the inside is a constant effort to become a better you. But that effort does pay off in beautiful ways.

On XXXmas morning I made sure to send Lady Diva Her gifts and made sure to include one for Her first Mentor and my first Domme, and eternal Fairy Godmother, Lady Morganna. Lady M is in a state of semi retirement form being a pro-Domme but Dominant Women never ever really retire. In recent years I have made it a point to include gifts to Her to express my enduring gratitude for the enormous effort She made in taking a useless male lump of clay and shaping me into the sissy I would one day become. Without Her I would not be me, so I now routinely express my gratitude to Her when I can.

I asked Lady Diva to forward Lady Morganna my gift to Her as She is not engaged in the online world, choosing to be very grounded in traditional ways. And the other evening I was pleasantly rewarded by a text from Lady Morganna!

My eternal Fair Godmother, Lady Morganna

She began thanking me for remembering Her this XXXmas, and W/we engaged in a lovely text chat. The amazing gift that She provided me was to be able to express to Her my eternal reverence and gratitude towards Her for being the catalyst of bringing out the sissy I yearned to be since my earliest days. Without Her compassion and guidance I would never have found the confidence to discover my true self and now be sharing my deepest sissy thoughts with the world; proud that I am the sissy She helped me become.

To be able to bear one's truth to the people who impact us so deeply and profoundly is an amazing gift. I think this world would be a much better place if we all knew how our influences in other's lives have created good in others. This in turn creates a beautiful energy inside of us.

Lady Morganna gave me a world full of firsts in all aspects of BDSM, too many to mention, but without Her there would be no me. And the paths I may have went down to find myself likely would have been very damaging and self destructive. All these things I was able to share directly with her and it was such a joyous experience. I could tell She took pride in Her work when She asked to see more pictures of me today which I happily shared. The male lump of clay She began tearing down and rebuilding in Her Dominance, was now a well mannered sissy who cast aside all the ugliness of the world I had held when I walked through Her Dungeon door so many years ago. We both shared a beautiful moment together to see how far W/we came.

(early days of Lady M trampling the ugliness of my pathetic masculinity out of me)

So it there is anything I can hope to pass on to any of you sissy gurls reading this, is practice the habits of gratitude, especially towards the Women, both Dominant and otherwise, in your sissy lives. Work on your empathy towards all Women and let those lessons change your outlook on others, as it will reward you by expanding your mind, heart and soul as a sissy. The universe will reward you. I keep experiencing this first hand and so can you!