November 23, 2025

Training Your Sissy's Asspussy - Don't Forget Warmth!



 


 Something often gets overlooked on all sides by those involved in strapon play. While the goals of Femdom strapon training are straightforward; to exert a Woman's authority on a subbie's mind, body, and spirit, the long term goal is to makes them want strapon cock again and again until it becomes a part of their submissive lives. Ultimately after extensive strapon training, a subbie may be graduated into real cock servitude and their training reaches a whole new level of acceptance and love.

But ask any subbie who's experienced the beauty of strapon cock and real cock and almost always mentions how hot a real cock is when entering one's asspussy. And therein lies what gets overlooked the most...Heat

 When a strapon at room temperature enters one's asspussy, the body's natural reaction is to contract due to the enormous temperature difference between internal body temp and room temp. With real cock, the difference is far more subtle and one is able to relax their mind and body more easily to accept being fucked.

My sincere advice to any Domme wanting their subbies to take to strapon training quicker, with more enthusiasm, and increased desire for more? Pre-warm the strapon dildoes to close to body temp. Electric blankets or hot water can each do the trick.

 


This small extra step will ensure your subbie takes their cock easier and more enthusiastically, which is a win-win for all!