Maintaining Your Gurliness

 

 As any sissy gurl knows, no matter where you are along your journey into Womanhood, there are times when life gets in the way, and ebbs and flows occur in your Femininity. It's been no different for me by any means. When I first began dressing, it was a special occasion thrill when I had time alone to put on my panties, stockings and what other Women's items I had at the time, and pranced about in all my sissy glory. As time went on and I found my Feminine freedom withing the bonds of submission to Femdomination, wearing Women's clothes became a more regular occurrence, finally until I was able to work Women's clothing into most wearable situations.

Wearing panties everyday usually is the easiest for most sissies. Some even can get away with pantyhose and other Feminine things. This is a wonderful thing to make happen in your life and is quite liberating. There are times however when one is forced to fore go their sissiness , be it relationships, work situations, or other things. It's important for all of us gurls faced with these scenarios to find ways to work Feminine traits and habits into our lives, even if ever so subtle.

There's a saying, "It's all in the mind", and this certainly applies to your Femininity. Part of my training and ongoing guidance under Mistress Diva is my now established practice of full time behaving and interacting like a gurl in my phone and online interaction with Her and all other Dominant Women. This is a steady reassurance that I am able to express my Feminine traits while continually expressing my submissiveness to all Women. I've been so very fortunate to have my regular G/gurl chats with Mistress Diva and others, where we gossip about normal everyday Womanly things, and sissy things, as a part of normalcy between U/us. We show each other the things we buy, compare makeups, outfits, panties, and talk about all sorts of dirty and semi dirty things like all Girls do. It is a regular part of my conditioning into Womanhood.

 

I also take it upon myself to keep my sissy skills in shape whenever I can. Prancing around the house even for a short while in 4 & 5" heels, keeps you on your toes, so to speak. Practising Feminine mannerisms when sitting, walking, and especially when interacting with Women in a day to day sense is a wonderful little game to play with yourself. Study the Women around you everyday and really watch and learn how they carry themselves, how they hold their arms, their mannerisms, and the way they interact with others. You can learn so much!

With summer soon to be here, we all should be reminded to work on our two piece bikini tan. Imagine your Mistresses' delight when She sees that you have a bra line tan and a t-bar tan to reveal yourself as a true summer sissy! Taking those extra little steps will make your Mistress super happy and proud of the work that She puts into you, and you want Her to be happy, right? Without a doubt you do!

Your Mistress knows that as a sissy, you are naturally wired to be a cock slut, even if you haven't reached the threshold of sucking real cock yet or have come to the realization that you have something called an asspussy. It's in you, She knows, and you may know it too. If you do, then wonderful! However, don't forget to keep certain top notch sissy slut skills sharp.

The prime skill you must keep finely tuned is your cocksucking ability. There's no excuse for not practising on a dildo, preferably a lifelike cock dildo. Some of you slutty sissies go out and find real cock and are not overly discriminate about it. To each their own, I'm not here to judge. As for me, my oral fixations stay finely tuned thanks to Shemale cock. Devina loves having her EME suck gorgeous Shemale cock whenever she can, and if you're like me, please, do not forget to share all the details with your Mistress! Tell Her all about your cocksucking escapades, and thank Her constantly for teaching you how to be an expert cocksmith. It is because of Her that you know your way around a cock to begin with. This serves to reinforce your devotion to Her as Her submissive, and gives Her plenty of added info needed to shape and mould you into the best possible sissy you can be. Also if you ever make the mistake of getting out of line, She has all the ammo She needs to make your life very uncomfortable. Frankly for me it's not worth misbehaving so I gladly obey, serve and share in all my sissiness with Her.

 

Last but certainly not least is keeping your asspussy in condition to be fucked regularly. Sometimes this can be the toughest thing to do for some, me included when life gets in the way. But finding time to regularly or semi regularly train your asspussy for your Mistresses' cock or real cock, is an essential sissy skill. You will thank yourself immensely when at a drop of a hat your Mistress wants to take your asspussy or you find yourself legs in the air and being fucked by real cock. No one is going to care how overtight you are so you better be prepared and be ready to use your asspussy like the slut you crave to be and aspire to be!